day 76
I’m in the middle of a weekly meeting and it’s kind of boring so I decided to write a blog entry J I just moved in my new place and there are still a lot of moving, lifting, and arranging to do. Hopefully I could finish and settle down this weekend. I am looking forward living in my new place because it is much closer to work and there will be lesser distractions that will keep me from working. I am a bit apprehensive though with the change in the environment because I don’t know if the place is for me or not and the adjustment i have to make since it will be a whole new routine for me. but changes are unavoidable, inevitable. It’s up for us to stand up to the challenge and embrace changes and make the most out of them. i have always believed successful people are the ones who adapted to change and played it to their advantage. I welcome this change because i know there is something good in this for me. and i can't discount the fact that moving in a cheaper place will help me save more of my money and set it aside for something bigger I have in my mind.
Keeping in touch constantly and keeping the communication line open with your partner that is half way around the world is difficult and this is the most obvious challenge couples find out who are far from each other. But me and ying ying are finding ways to update each other every single day. We drop messages even if the other is not online and reply to it whenever we go online. And the thread goes on and on. We also play words with friends thru our iphone and it helps us maintain our competitive side with each other. Skype has been very useful for us and we vid chat with each other at least four (4) times a week. It’s a far cry compared to the time that we were together here in the Philippines but it’s something I would settle with anytime. in long distance relationships, couples should both be dedicated on making the situation work and we are fortunate enough that we are on the same page when it comes to our relationship. I am happy and comfortable with what we have right now and how we work things out. It is something I am praying for that would not change, but if it does, I hope it is for the better J
day 77
was not able to finish my day 76 entry because the meeting ended early but i decided to include what i have written anyway. And finally, I am almost done imprinting my presence in my new place :) bought stuff that i need for my place like trash cans, rugs, wall hooks, a little bit of furniture, and other necessary stuff. i also realized that in my new place, i have to cook for myself since there are no food places that is near. i guess that would be better because i will have the opportunity to improve my cooking skills and impress ying ying with my dishes when the opportunity arises. i remember her saying that definitely she doesn't want's to be with a man who can't live on his own so knowing how to cook would definitely be a big plus for me! and one of the more better memories me and ying ying have here will be our food trips together. our appreciation for food brought us to UP Diliman for isaw and tapsilog and binondo for the chinese food to name a few. It was also something that ying ying was not from here and therefore, most of the food she had here were new to her. it was fun introducing her to our food because she is always game to taste them and seeing her like the food also makes me happy and proud of our culture.
our first date did not happen in a fancy restaurant, or a place with nice ambiance, we had our first date at robinson's ermita food court! at first i was a bit uneasy that we would have our first date there, i mean, i always thought first date should be about making an impression and i am at a loss how to impress her when we are at a food court. but i guess some things work differently for us. being at the food court left us with so many food choices and we grabbed food that she haven't had before. it turned out to be fun and light date and something that made me appreciate her more.
she is in a bit of a tough situation in LA right now. work and thesis have been gobbling up most of her time and she is kind of stressing herself out to the point that she is having colds and cough. this is something that also gets me in long distance relationships because i like taking care of my girlfriend when she is sick, shower her with TLC and it bugs me that i can't do anything to help her. all i can do for now would be to pray that she would always be good in health and nothing to serious would happen to her.
tomorrow, i am excited to buy additional stuff for my place. comforters, bed sheets, towels, etc will be up on the list. i would have greatly wished she is with me when i do this because i would have wanted her opinion on which colors, designs, and things i will have to choose. for now, i will just have rely on my manly instinct which products i should buy. i will be writing another blog soon since i need to finish some stuff for work. hopefully by tomorrow i will have the time...i just realized now that writing is fun. never in my mind i would have thought that someday i will be writing blogs. but here i am now doing the exact thing. i'm thankful i have this as my outlet, i probably would have had a harder time coping up with our situation. looking forward writing my next blog! :)